Worthiness

You’re fortunate if you’ve never experienced the feeling of not being valued. It’s awful when you feel no one notices your input or contribution in any form – whether it’s personal or work-related. Somehow, you’re overlooked and go unnoticed. It may be because of one incident where someone saw something that remains prominent in their mind and presumed that is your personality, and won’t allow you to move from that. Yet, unbeknown to them there were a myriad of incidences that led to that one moment. I want to encourage you today not to fall victim to someone’s perception of you. You.Are.More.Than.That. People with small minds see only what they want to see and we may not be able to change their perception, and that’s okay. KNOW that you are more than other people perceive. KNOW that you are VALUABLE. KNOW that you are Capable of So Much More than You can Ever Imagine. I want you to know that you are worthy, in every form and aspect of your life, or you would not be here. God made you in his image. He wants you to succeed. Trust the process.

Sensitive people frequently feel disconnected from the rest of society, as if they were randomly stranded on a foreign planet. Operating without a clear rulebook, they struggle to fit into conventional environments. This leaves them trapped in a cycle of feeling isolated, misjudged, and perpetually misunderstood.

During childhood, these highly sensitive individuals are often bullied or labelled as “strange”. This harsh treatment damages their self-esteem, forcing them to adopt a negative self-image based on how others treat them. Left unaddressed, this early trauma transforms into a lifelong sense of deep unworthiness.

Personally, I have been labelled as “strange” more than a few times. I was offended at first, and then when I evolved spiritually, I realised the people judging me normally thrive on drama, and more often than not, act out on the very things they judged me for. It was a real eye-opener!

Overcoming Feelings of Unworthiness

Believing you are unworthy causes you to reject your own happiness and sabotage positive opportunities. This mindset lowers your expectations, causing you to anticipate failure and inadvertently manifest your worst fears.

You must recognize that your value is absolute for two reasons:
• Your Divine Origins: You were created in the image of perfect, divine design. No matter how flawed you feel outwardly, your inner sacred nature remains untouched and cannot be diminished.
• Your Sacred Mission: You possess a vital, predetermined purpose on this planet, even if the specific details of that calling are not yet clear to you.

Turning Pain into Spiritual Awakening

Your emotional struggles and isolation can serve as powerful tools for spiritual growth and deeper self-awareness. However, healing requires you to face these feelings directly without masking them through substance abuse, addiction, or mental dissociation. Embrace the heavy reality of your existential loneliness – the deep, internal feeling of being alone in your own mind, even when surrounded by others. Acknowledge the history of your isolated relationships from childhood through to adulthood, and allow that raw vulnerability to fuel your transformation.

As Louise Hay encourages:

Your worth is an inherent, unchangeable truth that does not need to be earned. She firmly believed that feeling "not good enough" is the root cause of most personal suffering, and that you can reprogramme this belief through self-love and conscious positive affirmations.

Here are a few powerful affirmations to help shift your mindset:

• "I am willing to release the need to be unworthy."
• "I am worthy of the very best in life, and I now lovingly allow myself to accept it."
• "I do not have to earn love. I am lovable because I exist."
• "I accept myself exactly as I am right now."
• "I am a unique, beautiful soul, and all is well in my world."

And a powerful one when it comes to finances:

“I bless my income with love and watch it grow. My income is perfect for me. Every day I love myself a little more, and as I do, I find that I am open to new avenues of income. Prosperity comes through many forms and channels. It is not limited. Some people limit their incomes by saying that they live on a fixed income. But who fixed it? Some people feel that they don’t deserve to earn more than their father earned or to go beyond their parents’ worthiness level. Well, I can love my parents and still go beyond their income level. There is One Infinite Universe, and out of it comes all the income that everyone makes. The income I am presently making reflects my beliefs and my deservability. It has nothing to do with getting. It’s really allowing myself to accept. I accept a healthy flow of income for myself.”

I want to affirm for you today that you are NOT what others incorrectly presume you to be. You are You. You have immense strength inside of you. You are poignant in every aspect of your life. You have what it takes to get ahead. Your gifts may be different to anyone else’s gifts and that is what makes you shine and stand out from others. You are not part of mainstream society. You are UNIQUE. You do NOT need to convince anyone else. You GO for what you believe in and make it work for you. TRUST. Each one of you has been born with immense gifts that may not be recognized as yet. Do.Not.Let.This.Stop.You. Put one foot in front of the other and step into your dream!