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Insight for August 2026
Hello again!
Have the energies of the past few weeks been extreme for you? Over the top? Hells bells! Hectic? Days appear to be rolled into one … people are hyped and are in a super hurry … vehicles on the road don’t obey 90% of the rules … It’s as though the world is frantic!
And on top of all this frantic stuff, life goes on and things happen. In my own world, there have been many people who have passed on. Friends’ parents have passed, acquaintances have passed, and close dear friends suddenly left the physical world. I can still cope with rude drivers, grumpy tellers, sarcastic colleagues, and numerous uncalled-for instances, but the death of someone close suddenly brings things into reality and all the other side noise suddenly fades into oblivion.
In the past few weeks, I know of many people who have crossed over. In the past 2 weeks - 6 people passed on who have affected close friends; 3 of those who crossed were close to me. All 3 crossed within 2 days of each other. To say I was shattered in the past week, is an understatement.
So this month, I’ve chosen a topic that we don’t like to face or even discuss in most instances. DEATH. We hear the placating phrases of “It was their time,” “They had a good innings,” and other lines that we hope take some of the pain away, or for the sake of saying something at least. Most times we don’t have the right words of comfort and that’s okay. Being there for someone if they want to talk or share, is okay. There is a lot to process by the one affected by the death of a loved one. Doesn’t matter if it was a partner, husband, wife, sibling, friend, or pet. Death is final and we won’t see our dearly departed again, until the day we join them.
Death
Losing someone often sends us on a search for answers. We blame bad decisions, medical mistakes, or carelessness because the raw truth of mortality is too heavy to carry. We see this even in hospitals, where people ask if a crash victim wore a seatbelt or if a cancer patient smoked. Deep down, isolating the cause of a loved one's passing offers a comforting illusion: that if we just act differently, death might pass us by.
Before a soul returns to earth, there are discussions and decisions made with the higher self, the guardian angels, and the group who reviews a soul's progress and helps plan its next life, most commonly called the Council of Elders or the Council of Wise Beings.
Depending on how the soul chooses to return in its physical form, it will live its life based on the decision it took to experience in the current lifetime. If the soul chooses to opt out earlier than the original plan, it has the free will to do so. The soul is constantly in touch with the higher self (that part of the soul which resides in heaven) and may decide at any point that the physical life on earth is too stressful and will want out. This is a personal choice. Very difficult for those who are left behind, as many have experienced. Others choose to live out their life to the end and will experience their lessons and life choices as they are presented, and leave when their life is at a natural end.
Fortunately, a veil is placed over us before we return to earth to experience a physical life so we don’t remember our soul’s choice and therefore won’t live in fear as to when our earthly life will end. Knowing too much would ultimately destroy the very reason we chose to return; there would be no point.
Grief
Once the heaviest days of early grief begin to lift, it becomes possible to look back with gratitude for whatever time you were able to share with your loved one. Beautiful, unexpected shifts can happen in your heart over time. But in the thick of sorrow, imagining any good outcome feels entirely out of reach. If you are supporting a friend who is mourning, please don't try to highlight the bright side. When a devastating loss happens, there simply is no silver lining to find.
Processing your loss over time can eventually reveal a much deeper life purpose. This stage is often called the “sixth stage”. According to Kübler-Ross, there are Five Stages of Grief - denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance.
Suicide
Coping with a loss by suicide is incredibly heavy and uniquely painful. As you navigate this grief, please remind yourself that your loved one wasn't a bad person. Their soul was just carrying a weight of pain too heavy to bear, and for reasons we can't truly comprehend, they decided it was time to leave this life. It is so easy to trap yourself in a loop of "what ifs" and regrets, but try to lean into trust. There is a loving, all-knowing Universe guiding our spiritual growth. Even when a suicide feels like a terrible mistake, remember that on a higher spiritual plane, everything is held with love. The Universe never loses track of a single soul.
In the middle of this heartbreak, please make sure you are being kind to yourself. You are a valuable person who deserves care, no matter how painful your world feels right now. Pay close attention to your thoughts and feelings. If you find your mind overwhelmed by the pain of the situation, reaching out to a crisis counsellor or a mental health professional can provide a path toward stability and peace.
If you or someone you know is going through a tough time, please reach out for help.
It’s also not unusual to experience guilt over what you perceive may have been a part you played in your loved one’s suicide. You may feel you missed a warning or signal. You might feel angry that your loved one did this to you, but remember … you are not a victim of the suicide. Your loved one’s death wasn’t something that was “done” to you. There are some things in life that you cannot control.
Try to remember that your loved one's body and mind were just incredibly lost and hurting. If you can, hold that pain with a heart full of love and compassion. Just know that in this life, they were fighting deep, heavy battles that they simply weren't able to overcome.
When it comes down to it, the most important thing to realize is that you are not responsible for someone else's death. None of us can truly see into another person's soul or know the lessons they were meant to face. There is simply no way you could have predicted the path their journey was supposed to take in this lifetime.
Everyone is responsible for their own soul’s journey.
By letting yourself fully feel the weight of your grief, you can slowly start to let go of the heavy thoughts of blame and guilt. No matter how your loved one died, I promise that in time, you will find a sweet sense of gratitude for the beautiful times you shared in each other's lives.
I sincerely wish for all of you who are experiencing emotional pain following the loss of someone dear, that you find the peace in your heart to remember the happy times, to allow much needed self-care, and to take things slowly. Don’t allow anyone to tell you how to grieve or how long you will be in that space. Everyone is different and everyone takes things in their own stride.
Angel tip for the month:
August energy can feel chaotic or overwhelming. Daily, ask Archangel Ariel to wrap you in a soft, golden light. Breathe deeply and visualize this light anchoring your feet into the earth while keeping your heart open to new blessings.
Much love from my heart to yours
Dianne
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